[ it could be a long time before he tried to do anything, but because he's doing something now, it counts to her. it took her a long time to crawl out of her own pit of feelings before she could think about helping others. ]

It may have been many unfair and unfavorable situations, but we're all changing because of it. Why it happens may be awful, but what you do.... what any of you do.... that's what I think speaks the most.